Out of nowhere she began acting distant, unaffectionate, and then just texted me “this isn’t going to work out.” We only dated for a month and a half, but I met her family, her friends and I began to open up to her and trust her. I thought we would begin to actually date one another, but I guess that’s not the case. Be careful I'm (M24) from Jamaica, and a friend of mine who was in the states for months told me trying to date is way different here than it is there.
He told me that it's actually weird to just walk up to a girl randomly and say hey in the States. The anxiety you get sometimes before approaching a gorgeous woman. I [21M] have had trouble with dating my entire life. I know I am still young and it isn't THAT uncommon for people my age, but I still want a relationship.
He said that it could be viewed as assault, as the girl ”the girl might not want to talk to you" is that true? If a girl doesn't like you she'll let you know or you might get a number that isn't let's say... Even getting rejected, to realize that it isn't a big deal. Sometimes I say absolute shit and look like an idiot. A lot of people have told me that I should just try online dating.
You have to meet women at social events and online. It's weird if you don't approach women... Sometimes I go up to a woman say whatever comes to mind... Well I have been trying for over 3 years since I was 18. I have tried tinder, bumble, Ok Cupid, Po F, and Match.
Besides, I don't think gay men are less picky.I try changing pictures after a few months of no matches. Sometimes I will get a match, but it is a bot, a scammer, someone who is using dating websites to make friends for some reason, or I just get ghosted as 1 or 2 messages.However, most of the time I just get no matches at all.I guess I just need advice on how to handle this moving forward.Do I need to change how I portray myself online/in real life? We hit it off and began dating without calling each other “boyfriend/girlfriend”. She said I was everything she looked for in a partner. Don’t give your heart away so easily to people who don’t deserve it.
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