I suck at dating
They’ll talk to love experts, psychics, celebrities, and everyone in between that can help make them better partners.
It’s the all new “Help I Suck at Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared” an i Heart Radio podcast.
You don’t need to know on the spot whether there’s potential for a relationship. We don’t want to be responsible for hurting anyone else … When you reject someone, all you’re really saying is, “You’re not the person for me.” You aren’t saying you’re too good for them. I certainly felt that way when the woman walked out in the middle of our first date, and she had to text me later that night to reassure me that I was a great guy who’d be a catch for someone else, just not for her.
You don’t even need to know on the spot whether you want to see them again. That was nice of her, but in the end, that wasn’t her responsibility.
Solution: stop trying to read the other person’s mind, and stop asking them “yes” or “no” questions about their feelings.
It’s always easier to answer “yes” to those questions, but it doesn’t tell us the reality of how they’re feeling.
We complain about what others have done to us while doing exactly the same unto others, and we acknowledge our own hypocrisy but claim it’s just “part of the deal.” I’ve had a woman walk out in the middle of a first date. ” to my face and then block my number as soon as the date was over.
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In a way, her willingness to nurture my self-confidence just made me feel worse about the fact that someone so kind didn’t see me as boyfriend material.
You never know how someone is going to react to rejection, but no matter what, the way they react is on them.
Just don’t lie or deceive them in order to get a “better” reaction, because if I’ve been on the other side of that, too, and I didn’t always handle it well.
There have been times when I haven’t felt any chemistry on a date, but I felt it would be too arrogant to declare that.