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First, though, he asked for my opinion about several movies, which made sense.
If I would be joining him, he’d want to make sure I was happy with the movie choice.
Then on Fridays, he would ask if I had any fun weekend plans. During our call, I learned that his two-week silence was from him being on an international business trip.
I never initiated this texting because that seemed too forward. I guess he couldn’t be bothered to text that he would be out of the country and out of touch. He either had to ask me out on a real date, in person, or I would put an end to this silliness.
So I went, reluctantly, and one of the first people I met was Thomas — tall, flirtatious and dimpled.
”During the week, as our text volleys continued in that conversational way, I kept expecting that he would ask me out again, but not once did he mention another date. I also worried I would miss him because I’d gotten used to at least having a virtual boyfriend rather than no boyfriend at all.
On weekdays, he would text to ask how I was, what I’d been doing, how work was. If I were to end it, I might never give us a chance to recapture the chemistry of our first date.
Instead, I waited until his usual text pinged in the following Monday, asking how my weekend had been.
My fingers paused over the keyboard, my blood boiling, as it had the entire weekend. Did he not have any idea how ridiculous his behavior had been? ”I wanted to tell him off, but I was too happy that he’d finally asked me out.